Quzzies

Are You Soul Sisters?

You’re so close you know everything about each other. You know her dreams and desires and the hot guy she craves. Do this quiz and check out how in-synch you and your bestie really are….

Scoring

You need to do this quiz together with your Soul Sister. The idea is that you answer the question and your bestie either says you’re right or you’re wrong. Every time you get the answer right you score a point and every wrong answer scores zero points. When you’ve finished check out what it all means. Then turn the tables and see how well she knows you!

1. Her favourite colour is?
2. Her middle name is?
3. Her favourite food is?
4. Her fave actress is?
5. Her fave actor is?
6. Her all-time favourite CD is?
7. The last time she cried was?
8. Her favourite thing to do on a Saturday afternoon is?
9. Her favourite animal is?
10. Her dress size is?
11. The name of her latest crush is?
12. She’s most afraid of?
13. When she leaves school she’s gonna be a?
14. Her finest achievement to date is?
15. The thing that would most embarrass her is?
16. If she had $100 in her pocket she’d spend it on?
17. Her favourite kind of weather is?
18. She gets grumpy when?
19. I could make her happy by?
20. The thing that would hurt her most is?
21. Her favourite thing in her wardrobe is?
22. The part of her body she likes most is?
23. The part of her body she likes least is?
24. Her fave tv show is?
25. Her most treasured possession in the world is?

 

0-10 Skimming the Surface

You may think you and your friend are close but you don’t know enough about her to claim bestie status. It may be that you don’t know – yet – how to develop intimacy with a friend, or it may be that you’re still on a get-to-know-each-other footing? Either way, you need time to allow this relationship to grow and develop. It’s possible you (or she) may have an issue with trust. If you’ve been teased or bullied or abused emotionally in any way you might have difficulty connecting. If you have a history of any emotional trauma you may need to seek help. Try Kid’s Help Line 1800 55 1800. You don’t need to quiz her on every aspect of her personal life to become close friends. In time you’ll discover that intimacies are shared between friends in a natural and easy way. Nurture your listen skills. Be patient and be interested in her and pretty soon you’ll have a deep connection.

11- 17 Friends Indeed

You guys know each other very well. You’re mates in the true sense of the word. You hang around together and share lots of secret stuff. You’ve learned how to trust one another and you know deep intimacies about each other’s hopes and dreams. If she came to you in a crisis she’d know she’d get your undivided attention and unconditional support. If you stay on this path you will have a close and lasting friendship that may last a lifetime. You’re also not so close that you suffocate each other. You’ve worked out a happy medium between being a friend and being in each other’s faces.

18-25 Best Friends

You really are best friends. You are in the lucky position of having met a friend who really connects to you – heart and soul. Your intensity is a beautiful thing but you also have to be careful not to alienate others or create an exclusive club that includes just the two of you. OK so you feel you don’t need anyone else, it’s still wise to have a wide and diverse circle of friends that includes lots of people with varying interests and talents. This kind of friendship should be treasured – it doesn’t come along to often. However, it can also be stifling and restrictive, especially if one of you cools in your affections before the other. Make sure you maintain some personal space and learn how to have fun with and without each other.